Waking up one morning dreading my day, I realized I wasn't enjoying life, but with all the blessings I have, I should be!
Coming from the school of thought, "if you need something done right, do it yourself", I have struggled with when and how to start giving my young son a role in the responsibilities of running our household. But, after hearing him say to me, "Mom, you're always working or cleaning", I decided it was time!
I started out small by having him choose his own clothes and dress himself. Some of you may not consider this a chore but when you've done it for the previous three years, passing this torch lightened my chore load considerably! Although, he does tend to get distracted at times:
Since my son was learning how to put his own clothes on, I decided he could start helping to put his clean clothes away. I organize his clothing into green bins, as you may have seen in my "Epic TMNT Room" post, so it was quite easy to pull those out and have him sort his clothes. To make it more fun and engaging, we made games out of this chore by shooting baskets with his rolled up socks and sorting his undies by characters.
I also taught him how to hang up his shirts! Here, he demonstrates:
We then moved on to household chores beyond his room, such as vacuuming the couch...
...and meal preparation:
I didn't limit his responsibilities to inside the house, though, because he is more than capable of helping me with outside chores, as well.
I love to garden, so it seemed only natural to include my son in preparing, planting, and tending our vegetables:
I used to be a germophobe but now I measure the worth of our days by how dirty we get :-)
My son has also helped me with heavy duty yard work, like tree trimming:
Be careful what you teach them, though, because they can take it upon themselves to do some pruning on their own! Here, my son is teaching his little cousin how to prune my Ficus tree:
She's just knows he's going to get into trouble :-)
We've also washed the family car together:
These are just a few of the age-appropriate chores I entrust to my toddler son! I would like to say that I started this campaign to teach him the value of responsibility, service, and hard work because that's exactly what these chores do, but I really did it to save my own sanity!
Before, I was doing everything to provide my son with a clean, safe home environment but at the expense of spending time with him. Now, we enjoy chore time together, and I have a little extra time at the end of the day to indulge in my own pampering!